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Teach Yourself Before Your Kids

Starting with change in parents themselves, Deborah shows how to raise children in love to be respectful, honest and confident.

姜廖晖老师
25 episodes · 10 hours

Originally a radio programme on Far East Broadcasting, with hosts Meiling and Kaichuan in conversation with Deborah; shared on Dobany with her permission.

  1. 1Parenting Starts With UsChildren learn by watching us. Deborah explains why parents must change their own outlook…24:47
  2. 2Honouring Our Parents, the Root of CharacterDeborah tells how she went from hitting her son to repenting and apologising, and why rest…23:54
  3. 3From Suppressing Wrong to Building GoodComparing harsh and permissive parenting, Deborah shows that real character grows from lov…24:34
  4. 4Marriage Comes FirstStarting from Adam and Eve, Deborah explains why the marriage comes before the parent-chil…24:03
  5. 5Beyond the Child-Centred HomeA home that revolves around the child raises a self-centred child. Deborah shows how paren…23:28
  6. 6Love Your Child Can FeelLove only counts when the child can feel it. Starting from how the brain develops, Deborah…24:03
  7. 7Gifts, Hugs and Loving ServiceMore love languages: using gifts to teach patience, hugging children every day, and servin…24:45
  8. 8Planting Conscience in a Child's HeartEvery child is born with a basic conscience. Parents need to write right values on it earl…24:04
  9. 9Discipline Without Fear and GuiltChildren feel secure when the whole family shares one standard. Deborah urges parents to e…23:53
  10. 10Kind and Firm: Positive DisciplineOne breakfast, three parenting styles. Deborah shows how limits with real choices help chi…24:38
  11. 11Respect Goes Both WaysRebellion is often a child asking for respect. Deborah explains how to send a message of l…24:46
  12. 12Respecting Authority, Honouring ParentsDeborah separates respect for authority from heartfelt honour for parents, and how childre…21:28
  13. 13What Lies Behind the GamesChildren play games to belong. Deborah shows how to understand that need, and how to lead…24:43
  14. 14Character Between Two CulturesTop schools and employers value respect and honesty most. Deborah compares Chinese and Wes…24:01
  15. 15Reading Builds a VoiceSpeaking up is the first cultural gap. Deborah talks about building a reading habit early…23:58
  16. 16Asking Questions That Spark ThinkingUsing furniture that blends old and new, Deborah encourages parents to keep Chinese streng…23:42
  17. 17What Education Is Really ForEducation is more than a good job and money. Deborah shares how she saw her son's strength…21:55
  18. 18Praise Versus EncouragementPraise leans on others' verdicts; encouragement sees the child's effort. Deborah shows how…23:32
  19. 19Guard the Heart, Shape the WillShielding children from media values, finding their strengths, and shaping a strong will w…25:23
  20. 20Growing Healthy Self-RespectDrawing on her own childhood, Deborah explains why children rebel or withdraw, and how sha…24:27
  21. 21Win Your Child, Not the ArgumentBuilding responsibility gently, and four steps to win cooperation: understand, empathise…24:00
  22. 22Loving Children Up to the StandardThrough stories of shoelaces and video games, Deborah shows positive discipline: keep the…23:58
  23. 23A Secure Place to Return ToHow far a child dares to roam depends on feeling secure. Deborah explains attachment and e…24:21
  24. 24Letting Children Learn to FlyOverprotection leaves children lonely and anxious. Deborah urges parents to build up the g…23:25
  25. 25Connecting Through PlayChildren learn best when relaxed. Deborah talks about playing together and modelling respe…23:50